HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE SOUL MATES

HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE SOUL MATES

The term “soulmate” implies a special affinity, understanding, or powerful bond that exists between one person and another.

He or she is someone you can create a healthy relationship with.

She being your soulmate doesn’t mean she is going to be perfect.

She’s gonna have lots of bad manners and attitudes.

Always remember, She’s just like you. Annoying, irritating, bad mannered. *(Imperfect)*

But you have to love and accept her 100%  the way she is.

Always remember that true love is all about *sacrifices and compromise 100%*. 

It is a *long unending battle to keep each other for eternity*.

It ain’t ever easy and and not always sweet as the words of your mouth.

When you meet your soulmate, trust me *even your soul will know it👌*

Here are signs that proves he or she is your soulmate.

 

1) YOU ALWAYS FEEL SAFE AROUND EACH OTHER

For some reason, a part of you just relaxes when you are around him/her.

All the anxieties, worries, and fear that you feel are wash away when you are in each others presence. 

When you feel like you’re having a bad day, you always know that going to him or her is going to pick up your mood.

You don’t even have to think twice: just thinking about being with the person already gives you relief.

 

2) YOU FEEL COMPLETE WITH EACHOTHER

Somehow, you two are able to do the things that you can’t, can feel things that you don’t precisely because you are made to complete each other.

You might be an extrovert and she  might be an introvert. The point is, you have individual differences that, when combined, you creates a complete person.

These differences don’t tear you apart. Instead, it brings you closer to each other. You make each other a better person by balancing each other’s strengths and weaknesses.

 

3) YOU EASILY FORGIVE EACH OTHER

You might be more susceptible to fights because of your opposite nature.

Despite this, you are able to fight calmly and talk through every problem that you have. And when it comes down to forgiveness, you would rather come to terms with a problem rather than hold one another guilty.

 

4) HIS /HER HAPPINESS IS MORE IMPORTANT.

This is one of the important signs of a soulmate connection. Their happiness is your own. It doesn’t matter how many things you give up for the other person.

You feel incredibly compelled to make sure that their comforts come before yours. After all, loving someone is the most selfless act of all.

 

5) YOU HAVE RESPECT FOR EACH OTHERS DIFFERENCES

You might be soulmates but it doesn’t mean you’re going to agree on everything. The important thing is that your disputes on religion, culture, and ethics don’t affect the way you perceive or feel for each other.

You create an open environment for discussion. You allow each other to voice out your opinions without judgment.

 

6) YOU RESPECT EACH OTHERS ALONE TIME

Having time for yourselves is one of the most underrated elements in a relationship. Once in a while, the soul needs to be alone again without any stimulation.

When you tell your significant other that you would like to be alone, he or she respects it without any complaints.

It’s the same for you. Whenever your soulmate asks for alone time, you don’t feel the need to constantly check up on them. You trust this person with your whole heart and respect them enough to give them space.

 

7) YOU SHARE THE SAME GOALS

Although having differences is healthy for any relationship, your fundamental attributes should still be the same.

You may not have the same belief about every single thing, but the tangible aspects of your lives should be quite similar.

Having similar goals connects the two of you together on a deeper level. You feel profound respect for the other person because you empathize with their goals in life.

Through this, you create a strong web of connection and support for each other.

 

8) YOU COMPLIMENT EACH OTHERS FLAWS

Honoring your differences is one thing, complementing them is another. You can honor the views of your friends and family, but you can’t really change who they are.

Both of you recognize individual flaws, and work together to make each other better.

Your attitude is inclusive rather than accusing. When you fight, you identify weak points in their character and find ways to help them become a better person.

 

9) YOU KNOW WHAT HE/SHE IS THINKING

Do you ever get those moments when you’re almost telepathic? Like when someone says something odd and you already know that they’re looking at you.

Aside from inside jokes, telepathy refers to your ability to understand what they’re thinking. They don’t have to tell you what they think because you already know.

More often than not, you complete each other’s sentences because you just know how their brain thinks.

 

10) YOU DEEPLY EMPATHIZE WITH EACH OTHER

You feel everything that they feel on a personal level. If they tell you about a job promotion, you feel equally excited as them. This is the beauty of a soulmate connection.

When they say they’re afraid, you find yourself watching out after them, wanting to protect them from the world.

More importantly, your empathy is limitless. Let’s face it, we get tired of people. We get tired of being understanding and friendly.

Compassion just runs out from time to time. With your special someone, you never have to force out empathy. It comes naturally to you, and vice-versa.

 

11) YOU JUST FEEL IT IN YOUR GUT THAT HE / SHE IS YOUR SOULMATE

Without question, you know that this is the person for you. You don’t look at anyone else, and you don’t want to. They are enough. You know it’s meant to be, like a red string of fate.

No matter where you are or what you are doing, you both agree that things are just better when the two of you are together. You don’t exactly know why. It’s just a feeling.

So if you find that things suddenly seem intuivetely “right” when they are around, you might be in the presence of your soulmate.

 

12) YOU KEEP BUMPING INTO EACH OTHER UNINTENTIONALLY

If you aren’t already together, you keep finding yourself at the same parties, events, and even library or malls.

Conversation is electric and you feel amazing when you walk away from one another.

 

13) THE TIMING FEELS RIGHT

Whether you are already together or not, you feel it in your bones that this is the time in your life when you are going to find your soulmate.

The stars feel like they are aligning in your favour and you are ready to receive your gift!

 

14) EVERYTHING FEELS RIGHT WITH THE WORLD

You don’t question the good or the bad and you are content with how things are.

That’s how you know that you have found your soulmate: when you don’t want them to be anyone else other than who they were meant to be.

 

15) YOU ALWAYS FEEL LIKE HE /SHE GETS YOU ALL THE TIME.

Regardless of your mental state, you feel like this person really understands what you are about and what you value the most.

They support you through thick and thin and know that what you are doing is important to you.

 

16) YOU GET THE STRONG FEELING LIKE HE/SHE HAS BEEN AROUND MUCH LONGER THAN IT REALLY IS.

An interesting thing that happens to soulmates is that they always get the feeling that they have been around each other before.

One or both of you will comment that you feel like you’ve known each other forever.

You’ll laugh at how you didn’t know what to do without them and you might even have some flashbacks of lives you entered into together previously.

 

17) YOU ARE ALWAYS THERE TO HELP EACH OTHER

You can not only see yourself in one another’s shoes, but you feel like you’ve been there yourself.

You get one another and understand that there are going to be hard times, but you are there to help each other through it.

 

18) YOU ACCEPT EACH OTHERS FLAWS WITHOUT QUESTIONS

Everyone has flaws, but not everyone accepts or acknowledges those flaws. You are very aware of your own flaws, as well as your soulmate’s, and you love them just the same.

Maybe you love them even more because it is the flaws that make us unique and truly human.

 

19) YOU SUPPORT EACH OTHERS GOALS

Whether they want to be an Olympic runner or carpenter, you are there cheering them on and they do the same for you.

Not every person grows up dreaming of marrying a doctor or a lawyer – there are plenty of gifts people have to share with the world and you want your soulmate to do just that.

 

20) YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE BOTH OF YOU ARE AT IN LIFE 

Whether you are flying high or riding low, your soulmate gets where you are in life.

They never try to get you out of a funk because they know how important it is to just support you at whatever point you are in life.

They never try to steal your thunder when you are riding high because they know that you deserve to feel like that and they share in that joy with you.

Whether you are near or far, your soulmate gets what you are about and doesn’t try to change that about you.

 

21) YOU LOVE HIM/HER AS A WHOLE PERSON.

You’ll know you’ve found your soulmate when you accept a person as who they really are and don’t try to change anything about them.

Loving someone, or even liking them a lot is about giving them the space to be themselves.

If you are perfectly happy with their flaws and their awesomeness, you have found your soulmate.

 

22) YOU DON’T FEEL THREATENED BY HIS/HER CONVERSATIONS

Even when the going gets tough, you don’t worry that it signifies a breakdown in the relationship.

Because you are comfortable with one another, you trust that everything being said is important and necessary.

 

23) YOU CAN BE INTENSE WITH EACH OTHER

Whether you are agreeing on a hot topic or are fighting to the bitter end about something that you believe in, you’ll find that conversations and even interactions with your soulmate are intense all of the time.

This can be intimidating and exhausting for a lot of people who are not used to that kind of interaction.

If you find yourself becoming flabbergasted with someone, it might not be because you dislike them, but because you are intensely connected to them and they could be your soulmate.

 

24) YOU DON’T CARE IF SOMEONE ELSE WANTS HIM / HER.

You don’t get jealous because you know that soulmates are meant to be together. While others may come around, your guy or gal is true to you no matter what.

 

25) YOU CAN VOICE YOUR OPINIONS EASILY AND FREELY

You can tell them that shirt is ugly and they won’t get offended. And they can tell you the same. That’s pretty powerful.

Perhaps you can spend the afternoon buying not-ugly shirts together!

 

26) IT ALWAYS FEELS LIKE YOU AGAINST THE WORLD

No matter what the two of you are up to, you feel comfortable going forward because you know that you have each other’s backs.

Whether you are applying for a job or you are paying down debt, your soulmate will get all of it and be there to support you

You’ll never feel alone again when you have your soulmate by your side.

 

27) YOU DON’T THREATEN ONE ANOTHER

You never make them feel small or insignificant in your life. You never talk about breaking up or divorce.

There’s no need to belittle the relationship that way when you are soulmates.

 

28) MAKING EACH OTHER HAPPY IS ENOUGH

You don’t need anything from them except to let them love you. You are happy to love them up close or far away.

 

29) YOU NEVER QUESTION YOUR SECURITY

You know that no matter where you are and what you are doing your soulmate will be with you.

A phone call from afar or standing by your side, your soulmate will go to great lengths to remind you that you are worth whatever it is you desire and will help you find your way to it and protect you all along the way.

 

30) YOU DON’T REMEMBER WHAT THINGS WERE LIKE BEFORE.

It’s hard for soulmates to tell stories from “before” they found each other. In your mind, you’ve always been together.

It’s like parents who have children remembering events before children were born: “who had the kids that night we drank so much and passed out on the floor?”

Oh, nobody. The kids weren’t born. It’s like that with soulmates, too. There is no before.

 

31) YOU ARE BOTH GOOD LISTENERS

You’ll know you found your soulmate when the person in front of you listens with all their heart and all their head and knows just the right thing to say and do.

A kind word, or no words at all, your soulmate will know when and how to fill the void to make you feel safe and loved.

 

32) YOU THINK ABOUT EACH OTHER A LOT

Soulmates often recount that they knew this relationship was special because they constantly thought about one another and wanted to be together even when they were angry or upset.

 

33) YOU KNOW WHEN ITS TIME TO APOLOGISE

You don’t let pride get in the way of moving the relationship forward. You know when it’s time to say you are sorry and they do too.

 

34) YOU DO IT ALLOVER AGAIN

If you had to do it all over again the same way, you would make the journey together.

 

35) YOU FEEL STRONGLY LIKE YOU WERE MEANT TO SHARE YOUR LIFE WITH HIM / HER

You don’t doubt that this is the person for you.

 

36) HE/SHE TAKES ALL YOUR STRESS AWAY

At the end of the day, no matter how bad it was, you can always come home to a safe and loving partner who is going to support you in whatever you need.

 

These are how you know you’ve found your soulmate: when they are home to you.

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